Specifically to answer your questions, Mirror_rirroM *smiels* WHich I don't mind at all...... they're applicable and talkin it out helps me make sure I understand things as well....

I appreciate you taking the time to think about and answer my questions. :o) I'm curious, though...why is C with another woman ok, but not a man?

*chuckles* Good question. Reminds me of the question Survey Says posted in her diary a few days back about whether or not a blow up doll is considered infidelity. Never had need for one (plus I think I'd be laughing to hard to actually remember coordination) but it's just like a vibe, right? Another latex or plastic toy/aid. Not actually another person..... in fact most aren't even semi-reasonable facsimlies of people..... they're scary lookin......

Ah, but there's the rub. It's the other person thing. I'm actually highly posessive and overprotective to the point I probably piss C off *laughs* I don't mind her with another woman for quite a lot of reasons.

We both have the same taste in women, so I'm gonna like whomever she chooses, and she's picky as hell so doesn't choose all that often. Also should I really not like this chickadee for some reason, that's taken into consideration. Lesbian sex.... oh my lord *chuckles* That's just fun to watch when both the women are incredible. She also always comes back to me. And, to be frank, she's not gettin another dick in her.

That's the reason I won't allow another man (luckily she's never wanted one, either, so we're good to go). That part of her is mine, all mine. There is where I would get jealous..... probably to the point of serving time for my crime of passion.

We've had long talks about this, we both know where the boundaries are, and what's ok. Our hearts and souls belong to each other..... and that's what truly counts, our bodies do too, though sometimes we share. I love her and I trust her.

And the same goes for me, I can't have other women (don't want, either, another score *smiles*). That part of me belongs to C. So you take what's left and apply the above.... and you know her feelings about sharing me and where K fits in.

So should I jump in with her and another girl..... well..... I ain't gettin laid.

We're both all each other needs or wants opposite sex wise. And since we obviously can't change sexes, we allow the other to explore. There's only one life that we have any knowlege of, we both agree to live it to the fullest. We've only been this way for about the past two years. Will it last forever? Who knows.... it may stop after we're married, and we both decide - without saying a word - to fully commit to the other (hell, we have now, 'cept for that one sliver of play *smiles*) and stop exploring. Or we may bring it up and ask *shrugs* That time comes when it will.

Course..... since I'm working on my first exploration *laughs* I have no idea what I'm getting into

Oh, and I graduated under Behavioral Psychology